Author: victoriarosenberg

  • Crawford Lake Conservation Area

    Crawford Lake Conservation Area

    We’ve visited a lot of different trails as a family, but I can honestly tell you this was one of my very favorites! The grounds were immaculately kept, there was ample space to explore and run around, the scenery was breathtaking, and there was a boardwalk that was long enough that it was worth the travel time/visit, but not so long that the kids couldn’t manage it! Given how far the drive is, I would definitely plan to take plenty of snacks or, if possible for your family, a full picnic, albeit keeping in mind the time limit in your booking (explained below). It’s a really worthwhile outing and there’s so much to learn and take in from your visit!

    Note:
    Below I’ll address different elements that I take into consideration when planning in the hopes of clarifying any accessibility or suitability questions you may have as you plan your visit! These are all based on our personal experience (our oldest son is autistic and non-verbal, and we are a family of 5 with a 7-year-old, 6-year-old and 2-year-old). I would suggest doing a quick search to ensure availability before heading out to avoid any disappointment (especially with changing health protocols, potential grounds upkeep, events, etc).

    Address
    3115 Conservation Road
    Milton, ON, L9T 2X3

    Parking
    Once you’ve shown your reservation and entered the gates, there are a few different parking lots on site with ample parking. We were able to park right near the visitor centre, which was very close to the beginning of the Woodland and Side Bruce Trails, as well as the Crawford Lake Trail we ultimately ended up doing! There’s a very helpful map that you can download from the website, otherwise there are markings and signs posted throughout.

    Terrain/Accessibility
    We were able to complete the boardwalk trail that goes around Crawford Lake with E in a stroller and both boys walking. It was completely manageable with the stroller (summer 2020) and smooth enough that the boys were able to safely walk it! N did get a splinter when he touched the rail, so that’s something to be cautious of with kids especially, but otherwise, we found it perfectly family-friendly! There are photos in the gallery below which will give you an idea as to the width and construction of the boardwalk itself, if you need any clarification. I liked that it was enclosed and that the boys could walk ahead independently without the fear of them detouring!

    Having said that, we did attempt an alternate trail before finding the boardwalk and a family very kindly stopped us and suggested we go no further with the stroller, especially since the terrain was much more difficult to navigate (large rocks, exposed roots, more muddy than gravel, etc). If you’re looking for a more intense experience through the forest area, that’s definitely an option, but if smoother terrain is needed or you have very young kids, I’d suggest sticking to the boardwalk that surrounds the lake.

    Quiet Spots
    There were little areas just off of the boardwalk, complete with benches and an area to rest/ have some water and snack, etc., that we came across every now and then (I share an example in the gallery below). This was great to re-group, get an alternate view of the lake and pull out snacks or sunscreen, without causing traffic on the boardwalk itself! It was also fairly enclosed, so if M or I sat at the little entrance, the kids could walk around the little deck area with no issue.

    Size of Location/ Busyness
    The reservation site (located in the cost section below) has a status bar that provides information regarding how busy the park currently is. Having said that, it is very large, with many offshoots and plenty of space to explore. Even when we visited in the middle of a summer day, there was still plenty of space and we didn’t feel overwhelmed or crowded at any point!

    Variety of Activities

    There is so much to do here! We mainly stuck to the boardwalk, but there’s also the Hide and Seek Trail where you’ll find a variety of beautiful, large wood carvings that seamlessly blend into the surroundings, and where you can learn about species at risk in Ontario. At the Longhouse Village you can visit, “seasonal exhibits that explore contemporary Indigenous art and culture” which is both fascinating and an important and meaningful experience.

    Cost
    Reservations must be made in order to visit and there are time limits to your visit! You can reserve by clicking the link here!

    The website clearly states that, “Support persons for people with disabilities are free of charge.” We really appreciated this and it helped keep the cost of the outing down for our family.

    Otherwise, the fees are as follow:

    Adult (15-64) $9.50 +HST
    Senior (65 & over )$7.50 +HST
    Child (5-14) $6.50 +HST
    Child (4 & under) Free

    For more information, check out:
    Crawford Lake Conservation Area

    Other helpful links in this series:
    Summer Adventures & Accessibility!
    What We Consider When Planning An Outing
    Guild Park and Gardens
    Glen Stewart Ravine


  • Glen Stewart Ravine

    Glen Stewart Ravine

    We absolutely loved exploring Glen Stewart Ravine! Seemingly tucked within the side streets in the Beaches, the walk along the boardwalk through the brush is peaceful and stunning. There is something for everyone! If you’re looking for a fairly quick trail on even terrain, sticking to the boardwalk is your best bet and is a beautiful experience. If climbing (tons of) stairs is more your thing, then there are a few staircases scattered throughout the trail that provide alternate breathtaking views of the ravine, while also leading you out to the street where there are shops and restaurants to explore. There’s also rougher terrain, if you’re interested in a more demanding hike, where you’re able to get closer to streams and nature!

    Note:
    Below, I’ll address different elements that I take into consideration when planning, in the hopes of clarifying any accessibility or suitability questions you may have as you plan your visit! These are all based on our personal experience (our oldest son is autistic and non-verbal, and we are a family of 5 with a 7-year-old, 6-year-old and 2-year-old). I would suggest doing a quick search to ensure availability before heading out to avoid any disappointment (especially with changing health protocols, potential grounds upkeep, events, etc).

    Address
    351 Glen Manor Drive (see note below)

    Parking
    We park on Glen Manor Drive E. There is ample street parking along side streets, however this spot, specifically, is near an entrance to the trail that is more accessible, whereas other entrance points involve plenty of stairs.

    Terrain/Accessibility
    The first time we visited we brought a stroller for E. After about 15 minutes, we took it back to the car and set out again on foot. There is a somewhat uneven sandy/gravel entrance that leads to a boardwalk that is fairly wide and accessible, but if you’re looking to explore off of that path, the terrain is very difficult. There are rocks, exposed roots, brush and uneven ground that makes it difficult to navigate. There are also a variety of staircases throughout the trail, however, after climbing them, we realized they only lead to other side streets surrounding the park and other than alternate views of the ravine, rather than any other trails or such. I’ve included photos in the gallery below, to give you an idea of what the terrain is like, both on the boardwalk and off!

    Quiet Spots
    We found the whole outing very quiet and not overly stimulating or overwhelming in terms of a sensory experience. You can’t really hear the traffic or any other city sounds, and other than the rustling of the trees and birds, it was very peaceful. There are benches occasionally positioned throughout the trail, if you need to take a moment to stop and re-group. There is also plenty of shade and even on a hot summer day, it didn’t feel stifling.

    Size of Location/ Busyness
    We have visited early in the morning and mid-afternoon, and neither time were busy. There was ample space to explore and even though the boardwalk is somewhat narrow, it didn’t feel crowded. If you’re only sticking to the boardwalk, a half-hour should give you more than enough time, making it a great outing if you’re looking for something that isn’t intense and can be enjoyed in a fairly short amount of time, without getting too overwhelmed. The first time we visited, Y had a difficult time regulating during the walk, but managed to complete the entire boardwalk as well as a part of the rougher terrain trail, before he needed to head back to the car.

    Variety of Activities

    The walk along the boardwalk is very peaceful, as you’re surrounded by brush and the sounds of streams, rustling trees, and birds. Other than locals going for walks, the main activity seemed to be jogging and dog walking along the trails. We visited in both the summer and the fall, and the colours of the changing leaves in the fall were spectacular!

    Cost
    There is no cost to visit, including free street parking nearby.

    Other helpful links in this series:
    Summer Adventures & Accessibility!
    What We Consider When Planning An Outing
    Guild Park and Gardens


  • Guild Park and Gardens

    Guild Park and Gardens

    “…where art meets nature.”

    There is no better way to describe Guild Park and Gardens. With each step you take through the grounds, you simultaneously feel like you’ve been transported to a secret garden in the middle of an otherwise bustling city as well as feeling like you’ve stepped back in time, surrounded by architecture and features that are more reminiscent of Europe and the Mediterranean, than Toronto.

    We visited the park for the first time a couple of weeks ago as one of our after-school adventures. The kids absolutely loved it! They immediately set about exploring the different structures and installations. They were so inquisitive and curious and it was one of the first times they were able to touch and see architecture of this type, firsthand. In a city where heritage buildings push the limits to incorporate modern elements (take, for instance, the ROM), it was breathtaking to see a place where structures were recovered, preserved, and re-assembled to their original glory, albeit in a completely different context.

    The main feature is unquestionably the theater in the center of the park. As the website explains, “eight Corinthian columns from the Bank of Toronto at King and Bay Streets were re-assembled to build Canada’s only Greek Theatre.” While it was definitely worth spending the time exploring, there is so much else to see as well (see the gallery below!). Like this structure, the others are also re-assembled from different buildings, ranging from those of the Toronto Star to an old brewery. The way in which the original context has been changed to create such a majestic and breathtaking garden, is incredible!

    Below I’ll address different elements that I take into consideration when planning, in the hopes of clarifying any accessibility or suitability questions you may have as you plan your visit! These are all based on our personal experience (our oldest son is autistic and non-verbal, and we are a family of 5 with a 7 year old, 6 year old and 2 year old). I would suggest doing a quick search to ensure availability before heading out to avoid any disappointment (especially with changing health protocols, potential grounds upkeep, events, etc).

    Address
    201 Guildwood Pkwy.

    Parking
    There was plenty of parking available, at no cost.

    Terrain/Accessibility
    We found that all areas were accessible and where there were stairs, there were grassy hills nearby that could be used as an alternative. For the most part, the paths consisted of fine gravel or grass. The Greek Theatre itself, could be accessed from behind, if the stairs are not an option, still allowing for the ability to explore the stage closely. I would suggest bringing insect repellent, since we did leave with a few mosquito bites!

    Quiet Spots
    There’s a lookout area that faces the lake that is beautiful and peaceful, if a space to regulate or take a small break is required. Truthfully, when we visited (mid-week, early evening) it was very quiet and not overwhelming. Everything is spaced out and it feels very open and airy.

    Size of Location/ Busyness
    There was ample grass and space for the kids to run around and play when they needed a break. It’s a fairly large park and E did request to be carried after a little while – if you have a young child, I’d recommend a stroller. Having said that, in about an hour we had explored the different structures, spending a bit of time at each. As I mentioned before, we visited mid-week and in the early evening, and it wasn’t busy at all. The majority of visitors were taking photos or picnicking, and it was a very laid-back and calm atmosphere. Y was very comfortable during our entire visit and had plenty of space to explore, touch, and feel different elements and take it all in, at his own pace. The area is surrounded by more forest-y patches that we had to prevent him from running too far into, but otherwise, he was able to independently take it all in, since it was fairly enclosed and there weren’t any roads or otherwise dangerous areas he could wander to (although be especially careful near the lookout to the water, considering there is only a very small barrier to the bluffs).

    Variety of Activities
    Other than exploring the architecture, we noticed a few people taking part in picnics and wished we had brought dinner with us!

    Cost
    There is no cost to visit. Having said that, the website does provide opportunities for membership or donations, to assist with the upkeep, maintenance and preservation of the site.

    If you have any questions you can leave a comment below, or check out these websites:
    Friends of Guild Park
    Guild Park and Gardens

    Other helpful links in this series:
    Summer Adventures & Accessibility!
    What We Consider When Planning An Outing

  • Three Ways to Save $ On Outings This Summer!

    Three Ways to Save $ On Outings This Summer!

    The cost of an outing can be a prohibitive factor for many people and oftentimes, even more so for a family with a child who has a diagnosis or special needs of any kind. When so much is invested in therapies, schooling, medical supplies, and specialist appointments, finding room in the budget for a fun adventure can be difficult. It can also be emotional to put aside whatever amount and make the journey to visit an attraction, only to have to leave early or miss out on what’s offered because it may prove too difficult for a child who struggles with sensory challenges or requires accessibility that may not always be available. The rest of my posts for this series will highlight different locations we’ve visited and a comprehensive review of each, to help better establish whether it’s a good fit for you and to hopefully inspire you to find similar ideas in your hometowns!

    Back to today’s topic – the cost of an outing can vary greatly from just having to pay for parking, to individual tickets or tokens for certain aspects, to each participant needing a pass. I do my best to research and ascertain the total cost beforehand. I have three tips to share with you today that have proven so successful for our family and have made all the difference in the different experiences we’ve been able to provide for the kids!

    If you’re Canadian and haven’t heard about Access 2, I highly recommend checking out their site! We have been enrolled in their program for about 5 years now and just renewed our membership. The card is available to anyone of any age and any type of permanent disability who requires a support person to take part in an outing. Essentially, when going to pay the card holder pays their fee, while the support person receives a free or discounted admission. This has allowed us to visit places that would otherwise have been outside of our budget, since M or I will have our fee waived to support Y, thereby bringing down the total cost for our family. The card is accepted in so many popular places, from Ripley’s Aquarium to movie theaters, AGO, CN Tower, Science Centre, Legoland, Wonderland, the zoo and so much more! It costs $20 for a 3-year membership or $30 for a 5-year membership. We currently hold a 5-year membership, and it’s been absolutely worth it!

    The second piece of advice that has been so helpful has been to actually call locations or speak to a customer service person on site. Oftentimes, if the attraction is not included in the Access 2 catalogue, they will have their own pricing. You may have to show proof of diagnosis, but we have found that many locations privately offer special pricing for attendees with disabilities or for their caregiver/ support person. This has helped us with the cost of admission at smaller outings, such as farms, zoos, pop up events and more! If you’re comfortable approaching the ticket agent at the location, it’s worthwhile, however if you’re going to email or phone, make sure you get the complete details and ask for a summary to be emailed to you afterwards.

    Finally, I definitely suggest registering with your local chapter! We signed up with Autism Ontario and not only are we provided with so many support and educational/ learning opportunities, we also are given the opportunity to register or enter the lottery for specific autism-friendly events! We’ve been fortunate enough to attend the event they hosted at Ripley’s Aquarium as well as their Canada’s Wonderland day! These events have been so sensitive to our family’s dynamic and included siblings as well! I’ll never forget leaving the aquarium and hearing N thank Y and tell him how cool it was that because of his brother he got to go to this and how special it was! It’s also so amazing to be at a public attraction surrounded by families who look like ours and who understand! Check out if your province/ state or city has a local chapter you can register with and what type of opportunities they provide!

    I hope that you’ll find these tips helpful and that they’ll make a difference to your summer plans and outings! If you have any questions, leave a comment below and I’ll do my best to help answer or direct you to someone who can! In my following posts, I’ll be sure to state what the cost was at each outing and if there were any programs to assist with it!

  • Recently Read! (June 2021)

    Recently Read! (June 2021)


    Here are my most recently read books from June 2021!

    Have you read any of these? I’d love to hear what you thought!

    The Trouble With Hating You (Sajni Patel)
    I really enjoyed this! When I went to log it into my Goodreads challenge, I came across a few reviews that felt the representation of the characters’ culture wasn’t completely accurate, which is important to keep in mind. Otherwise, I liked the story line and the strength with which Liya’s character was written, despite all she has endured (and continues to) within her community. Even though she’s a successful biochemical engineer, being a woman, and thereby having pressure placed on her to consider marriage and children, was a topic that was explored really well. At first, I was a little thrown off by how long her hostility towards Jay endured, as well as the intensity of it, but it definitely added to the plot and made the ending all the better!

    Other People’s Houses (Abbi Waxman)
    After reading The Bookish Life of Nina Hill, I immediately requested all of Abbi Waxman’s books from the library and this was the fourth and last one I had yet to read! Other People’s Houses was very different from the other story lines, with stronger and more risque(?) language (in case that’s something you consider when choosing a book). The plot revolves around a small neighborhood and all of the different personalities and families that reside within it. Each has their own unique structure and challenges. It’s interesting to see the way that the characters interact with one another in public, as opposed to their personalities behind their own closed doors. When their own private reflections and thoughts are shared, yet another element is added to create a comprehensive picture of who they each are, complete with fears, secrets, and hopes. There was a lot to unpack here, from an affair that ends up affecting more than just the one couple, to raising children (from preschoolers to teenagers), and the everyday nuances of married life.

    Life’s Too Short (Abby Jimenez)
    This was my favourite book this month! I’ve really enjoyed Abby’s other novels, but this one really stands out. I loved everything from the development of the characters to the roller coaster of emotions throughout the book! One page would have me laughing, while I’d find myself concerned on the next, and then tearful, and so on. The honesty and vulnerability with which it all comes together is remarkable. Vanessa’s life is seemingly dictated by the fear of dying young, as many of the women in her family have, from an incurable illness. She lives her life knowing that tomorrow is not promised, until she steps in to become the caregiver for a baby girl, and everything changes. Adrian, her neighbor, offers to help one especially difficult night and the relationship that develops between them changes who they are from the first page to the very last. I liked how subjects were approached honestly and how Vanessa held her ground, not wavering on her principles, and making the sacrifices and decisions necessary to stay true to herself. There are heavy topics discussed throughout the course of the story, but it all flows so seamlessly that you don’t want to put the book down!

    I’m Fine and Neither Are You (Camille Pagan)
    This was an intense read, and at times very difficult. The main character, Penelope, is the main earner in her home as well as trying to be everything to everyone at all times, from her husband, to her kids, her father, her brother, and friends. After a devastating tragedy that carries throughout the story, she and her husband openly discuss things they’d like the other to work on. While her husband was initially painted as sort of hopeless, his success working on himself outdoes Penelope’s efforts and makes her even more frustrated. The reflection on friendships, marriage, and personal growth and achievement are seamlessly explored and developed in an honest and candid way.

    The Jetsetters (Amanda Eyre Ward)
    I’ll be honest – I didn’t especially enjoy this book. It was on so many summer read lists that I picked it up and managed to get to the end of it, but all the while it seemed disjointed and like I had missed something. I didn’t feel like there was ultimately a resolution as the story line came to it’s conclusion and while certain characters and situations pulled in my attention, I didn’t feel invested in what was happening. Everything revolves around a dysfunctional family, where each member brings their own baggage, so to speak. After a friend’s death, the mother, Charlotte, dreams of winning a cruise vacation and taking her (grown) children along. Lee, Cord and Regan all have their own issues, from a troublesome marriage, to a broken relationship, and loss of work and secrets that are hidden from family. Charlotte herself seems intent on finding a man on the cruise rather than focusing on the children she so wished would accompany her. Each of her kids are suffering in their own ways, all fairly serious, and yet they each do so alone and she seems to privately reflect on their circumstances but not really help in any way.

    How To Stop Time (Matt Haig)
    This was such a fascinating read! The story revolves around Tom Hazard and rotates between his past, which spans centuries, and the present day! He belongs to a secret group called the Albatross Society, whose motives I found questionable from the start. I was pulled in immediately and loved the characters included from different time periods and the relationships Tom develops with them. He has known so many people, but there’s an unmistakable sense of loneliness when he arrives in London and begins yet again. There’s something for everyone, from adventure and betrayal, to romance and tragedy. It’s fantastic!

    The Nightingale (Kristin Hannah)
    Usually at the end of each month, I’ve read at least a few historical fiction novels. Over the last little while, I’ve really struggled to turn to my favourite genre, what with the rise in antisemitism. After seeing @mayahoodblog’s recap of this particular book, I finally picked it up out of my TBR pile and my only regret was not having done so sooner! From the very first sentence, the writing is absolutely powerful and breathtaking. The emotion and sincerity with which each scene is described was incredible and it’s the first book in a very, very long time that brought me to tears. I loved how there were multiple story lines that seamlessly wove together and how, in the end, there was a sense of resolution and peace amidst the heartbreak. There were countless lines that I stopped and read again and again because the sentiment captured, the strength and wisdom conveyed, was extraordinary. The story itself revolves around Vianne and Isabelle, two sisters with a difficult past and relationship. As WW2 and the Holocaust begin, the roles they assume, the direction their paths take, and the burden they each carry, intersects and diverges again and again, with neither fully understanding what the other is capable of, at the time. This is definitely a must read!